Dr. James Dobson's, The Strong-Willed Child. From this book, I have found a wonderful chart that our family will begin using at the end of each day.
Until now, I would have never described either of my children as being a strong-will child. However, at times, they each have the tendency to be selfish, defiant, and - yes - strong-willed. And this disrupts our classroom, and life.
Because my husband and I realize that we still have the dominant influence on our children's lives, I've decided to take a pro-active approach and hold our children accountable for their attitudes. I pray the Lord helps us to use a kind and loving manner, no matter the end result, and that our children will become more aware of how their behavior affects others. I will update at the end of the year as to what changes (if any) have taken place.